Is God real? Does He love me? I need help! All you need to do is ask Him. On Christmas Day,1984, my husband asked Jesus at the point of suicide to come into his heart and be his Lord and Savior and instantly he was cleansed and born again. There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. John 3:3 Our sin separates us from God but Jesus paid the price for every sin, past present, and future. If we ask Him to forgive us and be our Savior and Lord, He will. Don't wait for emotion or some big sign, but simply ask Him and trust His word that everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.